It's Not About Who's Right

We all often think we know best. And this is one of the most common reasons couples fight. Our realities are subjective. And relationally speaking, you want to cultivate space within your relationship for your differences. The relational answer to who's right and who's wrong is "who cares." This is because the relational answer is "I care about you trusting the resiliency of this relationship more than I care about which one of us is right." So if your partner comes to you with an issue, rather than battle over the details, lean into the feelings and be concerned about what they are experiencing in the relationship between you rather than with arguing the details of what happened.