Why Doesn't My Partner See They Are Being Hypocritical?

Why is it so hard to see when we are being hypocritical about something?  Some say that humans are contradictory by nature, so perhaps we are all hypocritical from time to time.  It’s just hard to see outside of our personal vantage point.  It takes a little imagination, curiosity and maybe even a little effort toward trying a different approach.  And when we are calling out the hypocrisy in one another, we need to understand what the desire underneath it is.  Ultimately, if both sides can drop the defensiveness, the conversation transforms.  Listen in as Jules, Vickey and Rebecca discuss how both partners can shift the dynamic.

Share your questions with us here!

If you want to dive in deeper, consider registering for our online Essential Skills Relationship Bootcamp. Open to individuals, couples, and therapists. Learn more at whydoesmypartner.com/events

This podcast is not a substitute for therapy with a licensed provider.