Why Does My Partner Correct (Almost) Everything I Say?

We all have had the experience of being corrected by someone else.  Often, it doesn’t feel so great.  It can make us wonder what’s inherently wrong with us or why they can’t just let us own our thoughts and feelings.  It’s also very likely that we’ve been the one correcting another before and might not have even noticed that we’d done it.  Why do we correct others?  And what are we to do with their correction when someone puts it on us?  Turns out, there’s quite an array of reasons why we might correct someone we care about. And, there’s a simple step-by-step we can take when we’re being corrected that will get us more of what we actually want. Though “simple” doesn’t necessarily mean easy, if it feels awkward, you’re on the right track!  Jules, Vickey and Rebecca walk us through it in this week’s episode.

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